Hello, this is Brad Browning, relationship coach and creator of the Ex Factor Guide (How To Get Back With Your Ex), a program designed to help you reclaim your ex.
I’m quite aware that I’ve been dubbed the x back nerd in the past, and I take pride in that.
I take satisfaction in my abilities to assist men and women in repairing their damaged relationships.
However, in extremely few situations, getting back together with someone you miss is simply not the correct decision. Of course, when clients engage me, I show them how to get their ex back…
And, in many cases, they do get their ex back, only for the relationship to fall apart again three or four weeks later.
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Sometimes two people aren’t compatible at all, and it’s best for both sides to end the relationship.
Coming to that conclusion might be difficult, especially if you still care deeply about the individual and miss them.
In this video, I’ll go through five factors that can help you figure out whether you should keep trying or if it’s time to move on with your life.
#1. Do you truly adore your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
When someone leaves you, you frequently develop an illogical desire to bring them back into your life without first considering the facts.
Isn’t it true that people want what they can’t have? If at all possible, take a step back from the situation and take a few deep breaths before asking yourself how much you love your ex.
If you don’t believe you love your ex, it’s time to move on and find someone you do.
#2. Can you see yourself having a genuine future with your ex?
Lust may cloud your judgment, and believe it or not, I’ve guided couples back together just to learn that one of them is intending to relocate 2,000 miles across the globe for employment or whatever reason.
So, you have to think about the mechanics of being with your ex; would it ever work out in the future?
And, perhaps more telling, would you marry your ex if you didn’t? that you should definitely cut your losses and look for someone else.
#3. Arguments: How Often Do They Happen?
According to studies, having a healthy quarrel with your partner once in a while helps to build trust and love. When it reaches an extreme degree, though, it’s clear that the connection was never intended to be in the first place.
So, while you and her ex worked together, how frequently did you have disagreements? What were they talking about, exactly? How intense is it? They were yelling and tossing stuff across the room, right?
How badly do you want passionate arguments back in your life if you have them on a daily basis?
Consider the fact that your ex is unlikely to be interested in doing so again.
#4. Consider why you want to rekindle your relationship with your ex.
I questioned one client, as ludicrous as it may sound, why she wanted to rekindle her relationship with her ex-boyfriend.
Normally, I’d anticipate something along the lines of, “You know, he makes me feel like no other guy can make me feel,” or something like that.
Instead, I received an unusual and amusing response: she stated she wanted him back because he’s good in bed.
That one made me laugh because, in the meantime, sex is an important component of every relationship.
It shouldn’t be the reason you desire to rekindle your relationship with your ex.
#5 Is there a long-term issue?
If there was something wrong with the relationship that wouldn’t go away, you should ask yourself if it will ever go gone.
If you kept cheating on your ex for whatever reason, or if there was drug or alcohol addiction involved, you should really consider whether these issues will ever go away and whether getting back together is realistic.
Similarly, if you and your ex have fundamental differences on issues such as marriage, children, or money, this could be a huge issue.
For example, how can you ever reconcile your desire to have a large family with your ex’s adamant refusal to have children?
If watching this video makes you reconsider getting back together with your ex in the future, I believe I’ve accomplished my goal.
However, if you’re still dead set on getting your ex back, which is probably the case for most people, I strongly advise you to watch the free video presentation on my website.
You’ll acquire all the information you need in that video presentation to start getting them back right away.
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